I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months….I’ve had talks with and mentioned to him that I need more sexually….he has gotten a little better, but still hardly anything on the foreplay….my question is…..with guys…is it better to have a sit down talk with him? I’ve never had this problem before and don’t know how to address it….I’ve told him things that I need and want and he says ok, but still doesn’t do them.